When my son came along, I was working a great job on my way to a wonderful career that I was finally satisfied with – but I wanted to be home with him. It was a gut wrenching decision to move, but the orders came for Connecticut and my world changed again. We moved from our first home we had ever bought to a small duplex in the Northeast to brave the winters with a toddler. I created a new business idea that would only be successful with determination and willingness to put in the time.
Now – I have a portable career that I can and will put on hold until I am ready to pick it back up again. I have clients that will understand and be supportive, and I have a home I am becoming proud of every day.
This time – this baby – will be brought into a world where I can really have it all and enjoy them, their brother, their father and have my career, when I am ready.
That’s right folks, G is getting a little baby brother or sister November 2015!
And I’ve got a plan {when do I not!?!} on how this will be different as a second time mom. Here are my thoughts:
1: Maternity Leave
While I originally planned for my son’s maternity leave on THE due date I was given, needless to say I was incredibly surprised when he arrived two weeks early. This time, my maternity leave, will start several weeks before and last longer – this is a HUGE benefit of working virtually. I get to determine my schedule and how I want to work, which includes when I’d like to return to work. Which leads me to my second point…
2: Bringing Home Baby
Going into this second child is like going from skates to roller blades, it will be a little off balance for a while, but the general concept is the same: keep moving forward. While every baby is different, I have a much better understanding of what babies need in the first few days, weeks and months. With my son being SUCH a good listener {crap, I hope that doesn’t jinx it} and a good amount of help, I can find a rhythm quicker than I was able to with G.
3: The Gear!
Oh-My-Goodness! The gear we bought and received from wonderful family and friends was amazing, but you realize that you don’t necessarily need all that stuff! Plus, the things I did use like my pump, baby bath and booster seats are still in wonderful condition! After cleaning out my storage of these things, I did find that I would use each and every item again. That is of course, if the baby is a girl – clothes will have to be a whole different long discussion.
4: The clothes
While a girl will be different, there isn’t much I’d need to change to dress her – G has clothes through 2 years so far! I’ve even thought that adding a cute bow {she will have plenty!} I can make anything work for those first few months. 🙂
All in all – I am more prepared, yet terrified at the same time about this new little addition to our family.
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